practice makes perfect

post kali ni nk share ttg dri aku yg sdg mncipta langkah sbgai sorg counselor:

dedicated to 2 persons: my 1st& 2nd clients

1st n 2nd clients are very meaningful for me in mylife..
(actually diorg kawan aku,tp aku je memndai ltak diorg sbgai clients,bukan pe...aku just nk tgk perkmbgn dri aku ni je..kawan tetap kawan dihati n slamaya..)

time kasih sbb bg spenuh kpercayaan korg kpd aku
even aku xde lg certificate as a counselor,at least dgn kepercayaan korg,
aku dpt practice ape yg dpelajari n apply dlm kehidupan ni..

pe pgalamn dpt real client ya?
pgalaman..?
1st time hadapi real situasi:
pe yg aku blh komen stlh d'evaluate'

1) aku ni lack of listening skill>>so kne korek tlinga hari2 kot
2)rasa mcm understanding person je>>ok la tu
3)empathy pon ada,lbh kuang understanding >>good
4) slalu je bg value kat clients>> i should avoid to give any suggestion or value to my clients..actually,we can try to solve it together and both must give a solution..lau dpt solution 100% dr clients lg bgus..
5)eye contact:stakat ni da apply tgk mata clients>> still xjmpe lg yg bermata biru.hehe
6)self-disclose: aku da share pglman yg patut ngn clients aku>>tgk gaya,client aku blh trima je..
7) silence: lau first clients aku,mmg byk terdiam..time ni la aku kne bijak amik manfaat..tp still xbijak2 lg nk handle nye..2nd client aku lak,silence trjdi untk aku beri ruang dia berfikir n try rilex lpas nangis..>> mst improve lg!
8) yg ni aku plg lemah...xreti nk bg assessment..>>tp akn aku try gak tuk wat ssuatu,try to follow ke(tu pun lau clients aku sudi)
9)aku blh apply 'confidentiality'>>sgala rahsia clients aku,aku xley bgtau sesiapa.only me myself je tau..

buat korg berdua: aja aja fighting!!
aku yakin korg pasti boleh!
go go chaiyok!!

with love
-dd-