Wednesday, October 28, 2009

pengguguran!! ~~

report for mock counseling :

I handle Aliaa’s case which is about abortion. Aliaa live together with Azman without marriage. 3 times she made an abortion. She seeks me to make her mind clear and want to change her to be a better one. During the session, I applied some techniques of counseling successfully. But there is certain part that I miss to use it.

In the early session, I have done a paraphrase that reflects the content of what a client has just communicated. By appropriately reflecting content, I assure client that I understand her story. Furthermore, my purpose to do reflecting content is, I communicate to the client that I am following and attempting to understand what is being said.

“You feel so guilty but do not have any choices”

Here, I’m using reflecting feeling. A reflection of feeling should be clear, concise and accurate. It will help the client identify and cope with her feeling. Besides that, when I reflect feeling, I indicate that I can accurately sense the world as the client feels and perceives it. As a result, I build a good relationship with client

My mistakes during the session:

I must do a confronting. Alya don’t want to go to welfare house because she scared to Azman. She thinks, Azman will find and hit her again. So, I can ask these questions:

Have you thought that welfare house can protect you?”

Do you think Azman have a right to disturb you there? “

I must confront the client while attending to her feeling concerning the problem area. By confronting with support it indicate that I invite her to face her problem and deal with it. In the other situations, Alya have a difficulty to be independent, she only had a PMR qualification. So, she gets a difficulty to get a job. On her mind, Azman is the only one can help in terms of finance. Here, I also can use a confrontation to encourage clients to accept herself and become fully functioning.

“You are finding it difficult to face the fact that your qualifications interfere with your choice of jobs. Considering your own qualification is threatening”

By focusing on the discrepancy between the type of job the client wants and the type of job for which she is qualified, I can help her look at her situation realistically.

Besides that, I did not explore more her content. She always said, she doesn’t have a choice that led her to make an abortion. From this situation, I should ask this question:

What makes you feel that you don’t have a choice?”

This open question gives the client the responsibility for continuing the discussion and determining the direction of the interview. It also encourages the clients to tell more about her feeling.

At the end of session, I should give an assessment in terms of her financial problems. Ask her to think:

“Is it true that if we have a lowest academic qualification we can not have a job?

I should make an assessment on her. Ask her to do some survey at supermarket. She can ask the worker at there about their qualification. Any workers have a same qualification like her? If yes, Aliaa will realize, she can find a job with her qualification.

As a conclusion, I need to practice more about counseling skills. Try to handle case as many as I can, so from here, I will learn about my mistakes. Some people say: practice make perfect. I totally agree.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Aku Merinduimu

Tidak dapat kugambarkan
Rindu yang lahir dari hati ini
Hanya yang mampu untuk ku lafazkan
Aku merinduimu....

Terasa amat jauh diri ini
Kerna kau tiada di sisi
Bergenang air mataku
Bila terkenangkan wajahmu.....

Ayah ibu dari jauh ku pohon restu
Doamu titian kejayaanku
Nasihat darimu ku ingat selalu
Tersemat dikalbu ....

Oh tuhan .....
Berkatilah ku dalam mencari ilmu
Dengan redha Mu
Moga ku jejaki Tempat yang dituju..

~~devotees~~



semoga abah berada di daerah yg abadi bersama para solihin.i will miss u a lot..
22/10-happy birthday to my adorable friend- tq for evrytg..wish u forever n ever in HIS bless.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

rEdha




Usah di salahkan takdir yang melanda
Renung kembali sejarah silam
Dengan membiarkan ku sendiri
Ku terumbang ambing mengenal diri

Mujurlah Allah itu mengasihi
Aku diberi arah petunjuk
Berlindung dengan Allah
Menerus kehidupan
Ku mengenal makna
Dosa dan pahala

Dengan kehendakNya
Kau datang semula menghampiriku
Dan aku terpaku
Hingga ku hilang tiap bicara

Bukan ku menjauhi
Tetapi amat sukar sekali
Bila kenang kembali
Aku disisih dan dibuang ke tepi
Malah aku tidak dipeduli

Allah Maha Mengetahui
Yang ada dihati
Biar Dia menentukannya

Usah disalahkan takdir yang melanda
Renung kembali sejarah silam
Ku redha dan sedia. terima
Yang tertulis dalam kehendakNya

in-team~~


18/10- sweet 24 to my nice sister Jah- hop u can give me one more bro in-law asap :)

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

coretan bersahaja

hai blog..pe haba'??
lama xketemu...sowi sgt2,dkat sbulan xmencoret ape2 kat bdn ko ni erk.
bkn pe,asyik bz je.tmbahan plak mood nk mnulis xde..

kali ni aku nk listkan kenangan terindah dlm sbulan ni.pics akn myusul kmudian ya..

1)school trip ke skolah Desa Setapak untuk siapkan assgnmt Special education
2)bukak puasa kat restoran syam k.long blnja smpena 1st gaji
3)raya ngn rumah yg blm siap d'renovate'
4)terjah umah2 abim's members
5)rehlah kat sungai pisang(best maen explorace)
6) g Perkim untuk interview org sana tuk assgnmt Intro to Counseling
7)GEMPAK CARNIVAL kat mahallah Ali Field (best tgk dak laki main painball
8)Convo k.long n a.yen

next event:
1)g umah anak2 yatim kat ampang
2)Family day Nusaibah!! nk msuk explorace lagi..xsbrnye!!

erm sat,ttiba tringat jnji yg aku pnah buat dl..kata nk post sal fadhilat solat dhuha tu..bhn da ada,tp blm ada ms nk mnulis..t i post kan!